Sunday, 29 June 2014

The Second Trimester

I am now almost 32 week's pregnant and i am well into my third and final trimester of my third pregnancy and i am getting so close to my due date, if baby was to arrive any time soon he would now have a very good chance of survival. So i thought that it would be nice to look back on what my second trimester was actually like, all the pregnancy books and magazine's often tell you that the second trimester is the best as you have energy, you get a bump and feel baby's movements for the first time and hopefully if you suffer morning sickness it should have disappeared by now and you are glowing and blooming and fully enjoying pregnancy. And i have to admit the second trimester is actually probably my best but for me personally it is not quiet as amazing as book's/ magazines and films actually make it out to be.

13 week scan
The second trimester runs from week's 13-28 of pregnancy and at week 13 of pregnancy i had just had my very first dating scan and found out baby's due date of 26.08.14, i was relieved to find out that everything seemed o.k with baby and we could finally tell everyone that we were going to have a baby! It was also discovered at 13 week's that i was suffering from pregnancy induced high blood pressure and i was put on medication for this. But apart from that i was feeling fine, i really have been lucky this pregnancy that i have not really suffered from any sickness, craving's , aches and pain's or heartburn etc.

I started to get a bump and due to this being my third baby i actually started feeling  kicks at around 14 week's and feeling baby's movement's really is the best part of pregnancy for me as it is so magical knowing there is a little person growing inside me and that he is o.k . I had my 20 week scan and even though we wanted to find out baby's gender we were unable to as he had his leg's crossed and also the placenta and his hand were in the way. We were going to keep baby's gender a surprise until birth but when i had a growth scan ( as there is concerns baby is a bit small due to my blood pressure medication) at 28 week's baby had it's legs wide open for all to see and it was obvious that we were having a little boy which was a huge shock as i had been so sure that i was having another little girl! But we are so happy to be having a boy and we already have his name picked out Jacob Oliver which is actually the name that we had picked out if Sophia had of been a little boy.

Health wise since starting my blood pressure medication my blood pressure has been completely normal and i have been getting it checked first weekly and then fortnightly throughout my second trimester so that if i do develop pre eclampsia which i am at risk of then it will hopefully be picked up early on. I have also had a glucose tolerance  test at 24 week's pregnant which was due to diabetes running in my mum's side of the family and thankfully that was fine and i do not have gestational diabetes.

Baby wise he is really active and he has developed a pattern of when he is most active, i normally get lot's of kicks after i have ate, when i am in the bath and when i go to bed, he is actually most active on a night time and often keeps me awake with his kicks. At first they were just little wriggles but towards the end of my second trimester i was getting big movements and you can actually see my tummy moving through my clothing and you can feel and see his little feet sticking out my side sometimes which is a little bit painful at times but still amazing to see.

How i have been feeling , i really have been feeling pretty good this trimester i have had more energy then i did in my first trimester but i have not had loads of energy like people often say you will but that is probably down to the fact that i am running around after a one year old toddler all day. Am i glowing like people often mention? I would not say so, yes my skin feels really smooth and my hair does not get dirty as quickly as normal but my hair has not went lovely and thick and long like it did with Sophia and i don't think i am glowing as most people just comment on how tired i look rather then how good i look. 

Do i have a big bump? You can obviously tell i am pregnant and have a bump but it is not huge and i would love to look hugely pregnant as sometimes i think i just look fat rather then pregnant, i feel like i am bigger all over this pregnancy i have actually gone up a clothes size in maternity clothes as i have gained weight all over my body. As for lovely big boob's that pregnant women are often blessed with? I think someone forgot to tell my body about this perk of pregnancy as it has not happend to me at all they have stayed the same size but they actually look smaller due to my huge belly. And one thing no one warns you about is crazy hormones turning me into a vile creature i don't know how my poor other half has not left me yet as all i do is nag him, have a go at him or burst into tears for no reason. 

Eating for two? one of the perks of pregnancy people often talk about is 'eating for two' obviously i know this is not recommended but pregnancy is the one time in a woman's life where she does not have to worry about her weight or her jean's being too tight, it is also a excuse to give into the cravings for cake's and other goodies that we normally deprive are self of and a great excuse to get the other half to go to the shop's for you late at night in the rain for a bar of chocolate. But you know what i have not really had any craving's i have ate thing's in this pregnancy that i would not normally eat like kebab - shudder. But i have not had any cravings like i did with the girls, i have never woke up in the middle of the night and ate cake's or pickled onions dipped in chocolate or any other weird food combinations that is often shown on t.v/ movies. I also have not really been eating a lot more then normal either i am normally starving in a morning when i wake up and have been eating a lot of carbs ( mainly bread) but other then that i have not been eating for two so i am rather disappointed i have pilled on so much weight i would not mind getting huge if i had been enjoying myself eating cakes and chinese food everyday but sadly i have not.


17 week bump
And lastly the thing that is often portrayed as a blissful amazing second trimester is that we spend all day baby shopping/reading baby magazines/being pampered / and having amazing date's with are partner. This is far from reality for me firstly i have not even started baby shopping yet i have brought baby one babygrow from next and two hats and a that's it so far, i know i really need to start baby shopping but i don't actually need that much stuff as i fell pregnant when Sophia was six month's old so i have all of the big stuff and i did not want to buy any clothes until i knew what gender baby was which i only found out a few week's ago. Reading baby books? I admit i do read mother and baby magazine every month but that's it i don't have any baby books and i don't have lots of apps on my phone that i check daily for updates on what baby is up to i have not got a clue what my baby should weigh or what developments it is reaching each week simply because i have been pregnant twice before and i know most of what the books will tell me any ways. Being pampered? Ha no chance i am so busy looking after my girls and the house there is no time for being pampered my idea of relaxation is a quick bath if i'm lucky. And date's with the other half? on the rare chance we get to go out for a meal these days the girls normally end up tagging along too as we don't have anyone to watch them.

28 week bump
But you know what , yes my second trimester has not been like what is portrayed as the perfect pregnancy in the media but i have loved every second of it and it has been good although it has flown over so quickly and i can not wait to discover what my third trimester is like and to meet my baby at the end of it .

2 comments:

  1. I could not have read this at a more appropriate time. I'm just over 6 weeks pregnant with my second baby and feel awful, much worse than the first time. This has reminded me what I have to look forward to once this bit is over!

    So, thank you :)

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    1. Aw I hope u start feeling better soon the first few and last few weeks are always the worse but I'm sure once u pass 12 weeks u will start feeling amazing and get to feel baby kicking. I felt awful the first few weeks too but it soon passed and now I feel really good so I hope u will soon too :-) good luck with the pregnancy xx

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