Friday, 24 October 2014

10 Sign's You Are A Parent To A Newborn

As Jacob is now two month's old and no longer classed as a newborn baby i thought i would look back on what life was like with a newborn baby. If you are a parent yourself you may recognise some of these thing's. So here is my ten sign's that you are a parent to a newborn baby.


1.) Any time past 5am is now classed as a lie in. Gone are the days of a lie in and lazy morning's. 

2.) Coffee is your new best friend, although you rarely get a chance to drink a hot one and normally end up drinking it cold even though it tastes awful because you need the caffeine hit to stay awake. 

3.) You forget what a hot meal taste's like. You can guarantee when you get a takeaway cook a meal as soon as you sit down to eat baby will start to cry and you and your partner will end up taking it in turns to eat while the other tends to baby. You normally end up eating your meal cold or/and with a folk in one hand and baby in the other. 

4.) You end up going out with clothes covered in baby sick. You finally get ready to go out and baby is sick on you and as you are running late you end up going out with baby sick on your clothes and the worst thing is you don't even care as you just want to get out the house. You also realise pretty quickly that baby sick rubs into clothes pretty well- i know i am disgusting. 

5.) More then two shower's a week is a luxury. I know this sounds terrible but i never got a chance to shower unless the other half is in from work as i do not want to leave Jacob on his own especially as i also have a one year old as she will probably try and feed him wotsits and sit on him. Long gone are the days where i use to spend an hour each night relaxing in a bubble bath. 

6.) You spend all your money on cute baby clothes . Baby clothes are so cute and tiny you just have to buy lots of them and your baby ends up better dressed then you as non of your pre baby clothes fit and you don't want to go out and buy new ones in a bigger size as you keep telling yourself you will soon fit into you normal ones while sitting on the sofa eating a cake. No? just me then

7.) You have not watched a full tv show since having your baby or read a magazine and you have no idea what is going on in the world of soaps and reality tv and you don't even care anymore. 

8.) You have not spent any quality time with your partner and when they come in from work you end up passing baby to them.  And when you do get a rare five minutes alone with them you normally end up talking about the baby or who's turn it is to do the washing up or in my case arguing who has had the hardest day him at work with his coffee and lunch breaks or me at home with the children all day changing nappies and dealing with a screaming baby, I so have a harder day then him -fact.

9.) If you look on your phone's camera you will have at least one photo everyday of your baby sleeping since they were born. Or the same photo ten times in a row as you wanted a one that didn't show baby looking like a little sumo wrestler with a double chin. 

10.) All your tweets/status updates/ instagram photos/ blog posts are updates or photos of your baby and nothing else - i am very guilty of this one lately.  


Those are the ten thing's that happen to me when i have a newborn, i would love to know what signs you remember from life with a newborn baby. 

Lindsay x

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Wednesday, 22 October 2014

Heroes Of Olympus The Lost Hero - Book Giveaway

Saying as it is my daughter's 12th birthday today i thought that i would run a little giveaway on the blog  as i was recently sent some book's to review and giveaway from Puffin books. I have four copy's of Heroes Of Olympus The Lost Hero by Rick Riordan which is part of the Percy Jackson book series to give away which is perfect for older children, teenagers or adults to read.

We have not had a chance to review the book yet so i am unable to tell you what it is about but the synopsis reads
Three new heroes. One missing demigod.A curse that threatens to destroy them all .......
'What do you want from me? ' she screamed . 'What have you done with him? ' 
'Annabeth' said the bald dude Butch, ' we gotta leave. Let's get these three to camp and figure it out there. Those storm spirits might come back.' 
She turned for a moment. 'Fine'. She fixed Jason with a resentful look. 'We'll settle this later.' 
She turned on her heel and marched towards the chariot. 
Piper shook her head. 'What's her problem? What's going on? ' 
'Seriously' Leo agreed . 
'We have to get you out of here' butch said . 'I'll explain on the way'
'I'm not going anywhere with her' Jason gestured towards the blonde. 'She looks like she wants to kill me..... ' 

It sound's like an exciting book and if you have seen the Percy Jackson film's then i am sure you will agree they are great. So why not enter my giveaway by entering the rafflecopter below and you could be one of four winners who will each win a copy of the book perfect for giving to someone for Christmas or for you to keep and read for yourself.


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Tuesday, 21 October 2014

Review: Theraline Wynnie Nursing Pillow

As you all know i recently had my third baby , little Jacob and as you can imagine my house is full to the brim with baby paraphernalia. But one baby item that i had never tried out before was a nursing pillow. As any parent to a baby will tell you even though babies are tiny they do start to feel rather heavy and your arms begin to ache when you are feeding them. In the past i tried using cushions off the sofa to try and prop my babies up when feeding them but i found this to be not very comfortable or practical.

When Jacob was born i was very kindly offered the chance to try out a Theraline Wynnie nursing pillow . Theraline are a company who specialise in maternity and nursing pillow's, but they also sell other products such as baby pillow's - to help prevent flat head syndrome, neck pillows- for children to use on car journeys and maternity products such as cesarean belts and breast pads.

Theraline Wynnie Nursing Pillow
We received a Wynnie baby feeding pillow in pale yellow which is a lovely neutral colour that will work well for either a boy or a girl and fit in with any home's colour scheme. You can also get it in different colours and patterns , and i have recently seen that Theraline have brought out some really lovely new covers. The pillow is shaped like a crescent and is designed to fit around mums waist and to support baby comfortably whilst feeding. The cover is removable and washable which is perfect as we all know how sickly newborn babies can be, my Jacob certainly seems to be sick on everything!

So what did i think? 

The first thing that i noticed when we received the Wynnie pillow was just how soft the cover was, it is a really nice super soft fleece type material which is so nice and snuggly for both mum's and babies. I also had a good squidge of the pillow and it is nice and firm but also really squidgy and not hard . When you place baby on the pillow they look really well supported and comfortable, Jacob always looks super comfortable when he is on it and he snuggles right into me which is wonderful.
Now Jacob is such a hungry horris of a baby he feeds every two hours day and night and is currently draining 5 oz bottles so he has ended up being a bottle fed baby. But i am sure that this pillow would be such a help to breastfeeding mothers. It is so easy to use you just place it around your waist and then rest it on your legs when you are sitting down and then place baby on the pillow putting them at the perfect height and position for breastfeeding. Getting the pillow in place is so quick and easy i easily manage it with one hand whilst holding Jacob with the other hand.
Even though Jacob is a bottle fed baby i am still using the Wynnie pillow to feed him as he is such a chunky baby and using the pillow stops my arms aching and the pillow is nice and comfortable for both of us and defiantly so much better then using the cushions of the sofa.
This pillow has little features to it that i really like such as you can remove and wash the cover easily, i also believe that you can buy additional covers for the pillow which would be perfect for having a spare when your cover is in the wash. Another thing i like is that the zip for the cover is on the bottom of the pillow and it is hidden away so that it does not dig in or catch on parent or baby. The cover has remained super soft even after weeks of use and being washed in the washing machine. And the pillow has retained its shape and firmness very well , it looks and feels exactly the same as when we first received it and we have been using it every day. Another great thing is that not only can it be used as a feeding pillow but also as a support for when baby is a little bit older and is trying to sit up as it is the perfect shape and size to help stop them toppling over and will help them gain there balance. My 16 month old daughter is always pinching this and sitting on it to watch the t.v.I think that we will be getting plenty of use out of the Wynnie and it will last us well past these early newborn week's.
Nice and comfy for mum & baby

Good Point's
  • Suitable for breast and bottle feeding
  • Lovely super soft cover
  • Removable , washable and changeable covers
  • Firm and comfy and perfect for supporting babies
  • Can be used as a support for when baby is older to help them sit up safely. 
Bad Point's
  • The pillow was a bit snug around my middle as i have a bit  a lot of a mummy tummy after having Jacob, so if i was much bigger i don't think that it would fit me very well. So maybe they could make this in a range of different sizes to suit everyone. 
My Verdict

Would i recommend this product to others? yes i would do as it is great for breast and bottle feeding, it is nice and comfortable for mums and babies and you can also use it as a support aid to help baby learn to sit up.
I would give the Wynnie pillow a 9/10
So comfy he even falls asleep on it when we prop him up with it
You can buy the Theraline Wynnie pillow and all the other Theraline products on line from www.theraline.co.uk so why not go and have a look at the products they sell , i have heard that there maternity pillow's are rather amazing. The Wynnie pillow we were sent is priced at £23.95 which i think is really good value for such a good quality and useful product.

Lindsay x

* Disclosure - I was very kindly sent the Theraline Wynnie nursing pillow for the purpose of this review, however all views are my own honest account of this product. 







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Saturday, 18 October 2014

Review: Zippy FirstBib

As anyone who has a newborn knows they feed a lot and they are forever dribbling milk and being sick so a stockpile of bibs is a must. I brought loads of bibs for Jacob before he was born from the shops but they are fairly thin and the milk/ sick just seeps through them onto his clothing so i end up forever having to change his clothes.


Recently i was sent a FirstBib for Jacob to try out from Zippy Suit . I had not even heard of Zippy suit until i recently discovered them on Twitter, they were set up by founder Nicole Graham when she got frustrated trying to match up the poppers on her daughters babygrows  ( i am always getting in a muddle when popping babygrows up even after three children) so she decided to make a babygrow with zips and so zippy suits were born and its where the name comes from. But they dont just make babygrows they also make bibs and have three different kinds FirstBib, Fun bandana bibs and Absorbent bandana bibs.


Obviously as Jacob is still a small baby we were sent a FirstBib which is size 0-3 month's and is designed like a traditional flat bib but is gathered around the neck so that it stretches and catches milk so that milk does not get into all them little creases tiny baby's have around there necks. When the bib arrived i was impressed with just how soft it felt and it was thicker then other bibs i have purchased as it has a cotton fleece backing which makes it extra absorbent. And the best thing is it has poppers on the back instead of dreaded velcro that most bibs have that get caught on everything.

Now Jacob is quiet a little chunky monkey with squishy chubby cheeks and i was worried that the bib might be a bit small but i need not have worried as it fitted him perfectly. There is two poppers on the back so you can adjust the bib and either have it on a small or bigger fastener, we had it on the bigger fastener.And as the front of the bib is stretchy it fitted around his neck perfectly and we had no dribbles of milk escaping into his creases like happens with his normal bibs. And even when he was sick his clothes did not get wet as the bib absorbed it and stopped it soaking through to his clothes.

I really liked this bib as it is perfect for newborns as it is so absorbent and soft and fits nice and snug around there little necks without being restrictive or tight and i also like the fact that you can have the poppers on different fastenings so that it fits your child better. And it even washes really well , i have washed this bib a few times now and it still looks like new there is no fading or bobbling and it has kept its shape.

This bib gets a big thumbs up from us as it is perfect for newborn babies. We were sent this bib in pale mint but it also comes in a range of different colours and they even do preemie sizes for tiny tiny babies and all the FirstBibs are priced at £2.50 which i think is great value. You can buy them online from www.zippysuit.com so why not pop on over and have a look at the lovely range of bibs and zippy suits that they sell.

* Disclosure - I was kindly sent this Zippy FirstBib for the purpose of this review however all views are my own. 

Jacob's First Few Day's

As i started this blog as a way of recording my pregnancy with Jacob i also wanted to record his early years as well, but since he was born eight week's ago i have been so busy being a mum that i just did not have the time nor the energy to blog. But i have been making notes of things that i wanted to write about and one of the things was his first few days in the world,as having a baby is such a magical time and i want to remember it all.

Jacob was born on Tuesday 19th august at 9.31pm and you can read all about his birth story here . Because he was my third baby and i had such a quick and easy labour i thought that i would be home from hospital the next morning but that was not the case i ended up having to stay in hospital for two days due to my blood pressure being dangerously high in labour so the doctors wanted to keep an eye on me for 24 hours after birth to make sure it remained stable. Also Jacob was suffering from hypothermia , his temperature had been ok at birth but an hour later when they checked again it had dropped . When i think of hypothermia i always think that the person would be freezing cold but that was not the case at all , Jacob felt nice and warm but his temperature was saying otherwise.  We had to spend a few hours after his birth cuddling him close to see if that would warm him up and they kept checking his temperature but it was still low. The midwife was unsure if the post-natal ward would accept us with his temperature being low or if he would have to go to special care for a little while but luckily due to the fact he was a good birth weight of 8lb 6 they agreed he could go to the post-natal ward with me but he would have to be placed in a special heated cot and monitored every two hours.
Tiny newborn 
We arrived on the post-natal ward at around 1.30am and he was placed in a cot with a heated mattress in and he was put in a cardigan and a hat and wrapped up tight in lots of blankets. I spent the whole night just lying in bed watching him in the cot beside me as i could not sleep due to the adrenaline rush of giving birth , the noise of the post-natal ward and the fact that the nurses were coming to take my blood pressure every hour and check his temperature every two hours. I was dying to pick him up and cuddle him but i had to leave him in his cot to stay warm which was hard as i just wanted to hold him.

The next morning i was tired and just wanted to go home but the midwife said i would be in for at least another night as Jacob's temperature was still low and i still also needed monitored. I remember he woke up for a feed at 7am and while i was feeding him he opened his eyes for the very first time and i actually got to see what he properly looked like which was wonderful. With the girls they both opened there eyes when they were born but he had his tight shut and when he opened his eyes i realised he had no eyelashes at all , i don't know if that is because he was born a week early or not.
He opened his eye's
At around 9am Lee arrived at the hospital with the girls and they got to meet there baby brother for the very first time. Chloe was excited and dying to see him and hold him and came straight over and peered in his cot and asked if she could hold him. Sophia was in her buggy and did not have a clue what was going on as she was only 14 months old , when i seen Sophia she just suddenly seemed so big! I remember looking at her and thinking her hands looked big which was so strange as the day beforehand i thought she was still tiny it is so strange seeing the size difference between your children if you have them close in age.

Lee and the girl's could stay at hospital all day but after half an hour Sophia went out with her grandma shopping and for lunch as she was getting restless at the hospital. The paediatrician came around and give Jacob a check up which he passed no problem but his temperature was still a bit low. Then after lunch we received are first visitors Lee's mum and her partner and Lee's grandma came to visit and they had Sophia with them as they had been watching her. Then my dad and his partner came to visit ,when i was pregnant my dad did not want to know what i was having and he thought that i was having another girl so he was shocked that i had a boy and it was nice seeing him meet his first grandson.
First cuddles with his biggest sister
Lee and the girl's had to go home at tea time as Sophia was getting tired and i was a bit sad as everyone else on the ward had there partners with them and i was on my own and i admit i did have a little cry as i missed the girls and i was tired and i just wanted to go home. But by now Jacob was out of his heated cot as he had warmed up a bit and they wanted to see how he went without it. I had another sleepless night in hospital as typically my baby slept but everyone else's screamed all night and the nurses were still coming to check my blood pressure every two hours and Jacobs temperature.

On Thursday morning Lee arrived at the hospital at 8am with a McDonald's breakfast for me, and he actually got to spend a few hours cuddling Jacob and spending time with him which he never really got to do when he was first born and the previous day. They came and checked his hearing which he passed no problems. The doctor came to see me and said my blood pressure had remained stable and they were happy for me to go home but that i would need to keep taking blood pressure medication for a few weeks and to get it checked of my GP and i would also need to have anti clotting injections every day for six weeks due to my blood pressure being so high as i was at risk of blood clots.
Coming home
Finally at lunch time after the midwife filled in all her paperwork and my medication had been delivered from the pharmacy i was free to go home two days after after the birth with my baby boy and start are new life as a family of five! We arrived home and then my brother came around with my two year old niece as he had been watching the girls. It was so nice to be back home i had a lovely relaxing bath and we had a Chinese take away for tea and Jacob just slept nonstop only waking every few hours for a feed then went straight back to sleep.

First day at home
The first week went by so quick we had a steady stream of visitors during the first week and we did not get the chance to go out anywhere as we had so many people coming around, we did not get to take him out in his pram until he was a week old. I was surprised at how easy the first week was he just slept all the time and only woke up for a feed he hardly ever cried and he was even sleeping at night from 9pm-7am only waking a few times during the night for a feed.

Jacob really has completed are family , the girls love him and me and his dad love him and it feels like he has always been here. So far life as a family of five has been great and i can not wait  to see his little personality start to show and to see what adventures we get up to as a family of five.

Lindsay x
Friday, 17 October 2014

Review : The Mumsnet Book Of Animal Stories


As my regular readers may already know i love book's and i always have done since i was a small child.I have always loved nothing more then getting lost in a good story and i wanted my children to carry on my love for reading and are home has always been filled with many book's for them to enjoy. My oldest daughter Chloe is at an age where she is more interested in her tablet then reading  but my youngest daughter Sophia is starting to discover and enjoy book's more the older she is getting. So when we were recently sent the Mumsnet Book Of Animal Stories to review i could not wait to have a good read of it with Sophia.


The Mumsnet Book Of Animal Stories is ten short stories which were written by ten Mumsnet and Gransnet members and they have been illustrated by up and coming artists to make this beautiful treasury of animal stories.

The stories are
  • Little Miss Wolfy Good - a good wolf who gets sent to bad wolf school.
  • Captain Yuri And The Space Mission-about a hamster going into space
  • The Hedgehog Who Wouldn't Sleep- a little hedgehog who wanted to see winter
  • The Great Meerkat Escape- adventurous meerkats trying to escape a zoo.
  • The Tale Of The Winged Lion- how a girl and a lion save her father in a storm
  • The Elephant Carnival- how a baby elephant steals the show in a parade
  • A Pile Of Panda- why a panda is not such a great pet
  • Atuki And Serai- A brave young goat who saves there owner
  • Up In The Trees Is Not For Me- A scared little monkey learning to climb trees
  • Basil And the Brave- about a bat finding his wings


The thing that stood out to me when we received this book was just how beautiful the illustrations are and they really do help to make the stories come alive and help capture young children's imagination.Each story is around ten pages long and is broken up with pictures so they are the perfect length for bedtime reading. All ten stories are really lovely but are favourite has to be Little Miss Wolfy Good as Sophia seemed to really enjoy this one and actually sat and listened to the whole story from start to finish which is practically unheard of for her as she is a typical one year old who never sits still .

Overall we really loved this book it is perfect for young children like Sophia to enjoy as a bed time story or for older children to read themselves. I am sure that this book will be loved and read many times for a long time to come in are house. 
This book is available to buy on Amazon and is priced at £12.99 and would make a perfect gift for any young child as a lovely edition to there book collection. 

Lindsay x

* Disclosure- I was kindly sent this book for the purpose of this review from Mumsnet, however all opinions are my own honest account of this book. 



Thursday, 16 October 2014

My Daily Routine with a tweenager a toddler and a newborn



I love routine even more so since i became a mum as i find that without a routine everything just seems to get a bit hectic and overwhelming. When we had Sophia we were lucky that she just slotted into the routine we already had in place for Chloe and i believe that is why she is such a settled happy baby who sleeps well and always has done. So when we recently had Jacob he just slotted into the routine we had with the girls too although having two children under two things don't always go to plan as you can guarantee that when its time to leave the house to go out one of them will need there nappy changed or at bedtime one of them might take twice as long as normal to go to sleep.


Now i am not one of those super strict parents where everything has to be run to military precisions , to be honest i am far to lazy and laid back for that but we do have set bath and bed times etc. So this is what a typical day looks like in are household. 

  • 6-7am - Jacob wakes up and i will bring him downstairs and feed and change him as lee will normally be at work by now. 
  • 7 am- I will wake Chloe up if its a weekday and she will get herself ready for school and then make her own cereal, but if its a weekend she will have a lie in normally until lunch time as she is such a lazy tweenager. 
  • 7-8 am - Sophia will wake up and i will bring her downstairs , change her nappy and then she will go in her high chair in the living room and watch Disney junior on tv while having some toast for breakfast and i will normally have my first coffee of the day ( its my new best friend since i had Jacob) as Jacob will normally be asleep in his bouncy chair.
  • 8 am - Chloe leaves for school she gets the school bus with her friends even though we only live three bus stops and a ten minute walk away from her school, but it is so nice not having to do the school run any more.
  • 8- 9 am - I will get dressed and check twitter/emails etc  and make a start on the never ending pile of laundry while Jacob naps and Sophia is watching telly and having her breakfast 
  • 9 am - Jacob normally has a feed and Sophia will be trashing the house  playing
  • 10-11.30 - On a Tuesday we will go to toddlers or some day's we will go out to the shops or to meet friends and family for a few hours.
  • 11.30-12.30- If we are at home normally Sophia and Jacob will both have a nap at the same time and i spend time on my phone on twitter do some housework , sterilise Jacob's bottle's, do more laundry .
  • 12.30-1.30 - Sophia will wake up from her nap as she only has an hour at most and then i normally put a film on as she is obsessed with Despicable me 2 as she loves the minions and we will have some lunch she normally has something quick like a sandwich or grated cheese and fruit and Jacob will normally wake up and have a feed. 
  • 1.30- 3-30 pm - On a Tuesday i take Jacob out to baby massage on an afternoon but normally we just spend time at home playing and reading books, but if we have been out in the mornings Sophia will normally be having a nap around now. 
  • 3.30 pm - Chloe arrives home from school and will normally do her homework as soon as she gets in 
  • 4 - 5 pm -I normally do more housework and make tea , some time's Lee is home from work at 4 and other days at 7pm depending on what shift he is on.
  • 5pm - we have tea.
  • 6pm - On a Tuesday we take Chloe to guides but the rest of the time i try and spend half an hour talking to her about her day after tea. 
  • 6.30 pm- Sophia has a bath and then she gets ready for bed and has a bottle and goes to bed for 7pm.
  • 7pm - Jacob is normally screaming the house down and will of been for the last hour or so as he is so unsettled on a night time with colic so i have to try and comfort him 
  • 7.30- Jacob will have a bath and get ready for bed and on a Tuesday we will have to go and pick Chloe up from guides. 
  • 8pm -9pm - i normally have an hour to myself if Jacob is settled so i can have a bath but sometimes i end up catching up on housework if we have had a busy day. 
  • 9pm - Jacob normally falls asleep so we take him to bed and it is also Chloe's bedtime on a weeknight and i normally end up going to bed too as i am normally up between 2-4 times during the night doing night feeds. 
Ready for bed, he may be cute but he is a tinker

And then it all starts again the next day, it does not seem like i do much now i have written it all down but some days are hard as i seem to spend the whole day changing nappies and feeding Jacob and tidying up off Sophia as she is into everything and is forever pulling the sofa cushions off and making a mess and some days Jacob just screams for ages. And i also try and spend time with Chloe helping with homework or just spending time with her painting her nails or watching tv together. And trying to find time to spend with Lee is impossible as he is always at work or we are so busy with the children but i know it wont always be this hectic. 
On Lee's day's off we normally have a day out somewhere or we visit family or go shopping and we normally take Sophia to soft play on one of his days off as she loves it and so does her daddy. Tuesdays are super busy days as Sophia has toddlers in the morning, Jacob has baby massage in the afternoon and Chloe has guides in the evening. But i am going to look into finding some more baby groups during the week that i can go to as i hate being stuck at home.
So as you can see i rarely get any time to myself which is why the blog has taken a bit of a backseat at the moment but hopefully that will change soon.
She love's soft play


Lindsay x

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